Janus-like life

Every event, person has two sides, the positive one and the negative one, like the Roman God, Janus.

The negative side is disturbing and annoying.

The positive one is soul-soothing.

The two sides are not necessarily equally dominant in reality.

I usually have the tendency to focus on the negative side, especially when it is the dominant side, which is draining my energy.

But I have learnt that if you just take lessons from negative side and focus on the positive part, the life will be more joyful. Also this way of thinking and interpreting things will elevate your mood.

I need to remind myself constantly about positive thinking. It pays me back well when I do it :).